Had a conversation today... someone said it is possible that you could be with the right person but if you take too long to commit then that person could leave you and you would not be with who you are meant to be with because they would get fed up and find someone else.
Then I thought if that person was meant to be yours how could they leave you? How could they just easily give up that love and go to someone else?
My opinion... if someone loved you they wouldn't leave you... especially if you were meant to be. So perhaps if it requires you to make a decision before you are ready to make a decision for someone to stay is that person the one that is meant for you? Perhaps you are supposed to be with someone else and fear and forced you to commit and give up other life choices.
So what is it? Is it that you need to act when the time is right otherwise the time will run out... or do we work together to make things right?
What to believe? I dunno. I would not like to think that if there is love between two people that at some point that love with run out if you don't make huge life choices/ decisions for one another. I would hope that love will carry you both through until both are ready. I don't know. Wondering and thinking.
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